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Sunday Grande: Fifty Shades of Grey

I know not how to start this somehow. Either because the last time I did a post  about my Sunday Grande with the touch of movie review was last two years ago, click me,or the fact that I had been AGAIN absent for an entire month. 

Well. . . whichever way it is, I felt my guilt had devoured me little by little not to blog about the very recent movie of E.L. James, the Fifty Shades of Grey, since it both had and has been the very reason why this blog of mine was given birth and brought to life. 

Spoiler Alert!!! No movie review in here, just how my V-day turned out.

Let's try to press the "time travel" button this time. If you notice, the very first blog I did publish was on reading - click me- of which houses my random thoughts about reading itself, which was then followed by this:

My Awakener : Fifty Shades Trilogy + Its History

. . . and then this:

Random Formula # 1: Highlighter + Book = ME (Poignant Lines From Fifty Shades Trilogy)

(Please have some time to click and read the highlighted links, *_^)

So, well. . . those reveal something about how my bookish self revived. Now to go back with what I have been babbling, hope I'm not baffling you ^_^, my conscience is not in its ease just to let the opportunity pass. Though, I've actually let the momentum pass, since I did procrastinate and became late again, here it goes.

I've been loco over this novel, ever since I've read it and believe me, I've read each book five times. HAHAHAHAH! Silly isn't it? but then who could resist such a handsome stalker, PLUS!!! I'm making my real Christian Grey in the person of Christopher Lim, whom Aries, my one true love baptized him as Boy Mcdo. (Psssshhhhhh! This is a silent shout out, my silence scream for my admiration to him *_*)

With my obsession of the books, of the trilogy itself, I've shared it to the people whom I am close with, Ms. Mae, my "classmates" Keziah and Deborah. And to be honest. I was actually expecting to watch the movie with them. But due to some schedule conflict none of us went together to watch the movie. I was bit sad for I thought I will never be able to see Christian's stalking prowess. However, here's one great deal, my nephew who happened to be one of my students before - click me- way back in my teaching years in MUHS sent me this:

. . . an invite eventually came, though at first I hesitated for it's been  R-18, I got this as his response:

. . . and so I got the date with Mr.Grey , and Mr. Lim. ^_^

Credits to Jason for this photo ^_^

. . . as we watched the film, ask me how many times did I have it. THREE TIMES!!! because one of his classmates, my very beautiful Sofia went to catch up with us and since she wasn't able to watch it from the beginning and since Jason had to leave for their family dinner, I was left with her  and did the reviewing of the movie. Sad to say, we had no photo to be posted. My sister then came and, like Sofia, she came late and Sofia has to leave,I was still left and did  another preview of the movie.If you'll say it's a bbit crazy , I'll definitely agree.

. . . and ohhhh, I forgot to made mention it was Saturday. When Sunday came the next day precisely , I got another invite from my kikay girls, and so I had to watch the movie again TWICE. Now please do the Math. Good heavens!Yes I did watch the movie five times all in all. hahahah!

Sofia, Noiree, and Me

Eri, Janica, Noiree, Sofia and I inside the movie house

. . . after the movie watching we headed right straight to Farron:

. . . and had dinner in McDo, sad to say my Christian Grey wasn't there. *insert sad face here*

. . .to sum it all up, my Christian Grey experience may not be in the way I wanted it to be: a) spend with those I was eagerly shared the story, b) see Ian Somerhalder do the role, and c) get a photo with my Boy Mcdo, yet, it all turned out to be super well and priceless. Thanks to this bunch of kiddos. ^_^

Manuscript Found in Accra by Paulo Coelho

Bookish Mardi: A Book Review of Manuscript Found in Accra

by Paulo Coelho

"The great wisdom of life is that we can be masters of the things that try to enslave us." - Paulo Coelho

I'd like to start this review by telling you guys I have always been a spoiled girlfriend. I don't know why and how it started I just accidentally noticed that whenever I'm liking or into something, my man all the time makes all the possible ways to get my heart's little desire. May it be a surprise or not, he loves watching my face turning red brought about by intense happiness. Though I have been pampered with these material things I'm getting without me asking from him, I make it sure his being a giver will not be abused. 

So when we were celebrating our nth monthsary ( ^_^ ) a delivery arrived into the doorway of our house. I was quite glad the moment I unraveled the package for it contained a Forever21  lace long sleeve and a book by one of my personal favorite authors. He truly knows the way to my heart. Lucky gf, ain't I? ^_-

Book Review

The very first time I took grip of the book, to admit, I wasn't quite amazed of it, nonchalant I'd become instead. The title didn't catch my attention plus it's so small, super small. My books are usually big, heavy, and thick, yet this one's just the smallest and the thinnest I ever had.  Plus, the pages are so dark for a paperback. Indeed, 'twas ugly by appearance. Though it's from Paulo C. I didn't read the book right away. It took me months as usual before I fin'lly read it, due also to the books stacked in shelf  which are to be read. So I placed it right at the bottom part of those unread books.

Fast forward to the day I got the juncture to  read it, I can only think of this very common quote people usually use, "Don't judge a book by it's cover" and well add to it its appearance, such a cliche, isn't it? The book, though minute in size contains too many substantial content. Never had I thought of a book as small and as thin as this can contain the most heaviest notion on earth ever existed.  It doesn't just a mere fiction. It is a by-product of  well-thought topics from a well-experienced author.

The book talks not just a single topic at hand. It doesn't just talk about philosophy, science, math and literature. It talks all those subtantial subjects/topics under the sun down from friendship, frienemy, marriage, up to death and many others. Beauty, happiness, giving up, winning, acceptance, loyalty, fear, bravery, solitude, love, hatred, elegance, name it and the book will surely have something for you not just to ponder but  to  touch your soul and influence your outlooks in life,

It's a book full of not just random musings but well-organized pensive thoughts on everything you needed which will surely have a life enhancing impact to the readers, as it did to me. 

As a whole, it taught me a lot of things of which if I have to enumerate them will surely wont finish. The list is indeed endless. But one thing I'd like to share, this little book made me realize that in this multi-faceted life, we need not to grieve with  what has been lost but to find joy in sorrows. It inspired me not to dwell on the many negative repercussions but to always look at the brighter side of the coin. Because life at all isn't about how we did not fail but it's more on being able to stand up after we fell.

So to you guys, who've been looking for not only a book/story but also a compilation of pieces of advice, I highly recommend this for you to read. ^_^

Book Summary

The action is placed in 1099 in Jerusalem while the city awaits the invasion of the crusaders. Inside the city's walls, men and women gathered to hear the wise words of a mysterious Greek man - known as Copt. The people begin with questions about their fears, true enemies, defeat and struggle; they contemplate the will to change, the virtues of loyalty and solitude; and ultimately turn to questions of beauty, sex and elegance, love, wisdom, and what the future holds. (Source: Wikipedia)

Remarkable Lines from the Book

"Now that I am at the end of my life, I leave for those who come after me everything that I learned while I walked the face of the Earth. May they make good use of it."

". . . tomorrow, life will undertake to separate us, we must  each set off in search of our path, our own destiny or our own way of facing death.'

"From tomorrow, harmony will become discord. Joy 

will be replaced by grief. Peace will give away to a awar that will last into an unimaginable distant future."

". . . what is knowledge?

It is the absolute  truth about life and death, but the thing that helps us to livee and confont the challenges of day-t-day life. It isn't what we learned from books,  which serves only to fuel futile arguments about what happened or will happen; it is the knowledge that lives in the hearts of men and women of good will."

"None of the us can know what tomorrow will hold, because each day has its good and its bad moments."

"Does a leaf when it falls from the tree in winter, feel defeated by the cold?"

"Does a man who spent years preparing to climb the highest mountain in the world feel defeated when, on reaching that mountain, he discovers that nature has cloaked the summit in storm clouds?"

"Does a young man, rejected by his first love, declare that love does not exist?"

"In the cycle of nature there is no such thing as victory or defeat; there is only movement."

"The winter struggles  to reign supreme, but in the end is obliged to accept spring's victory, which brings with it flowers and happiness."

". . . wen the fighter is on the ring - whether by his own choice or because unfathomable destiny has placed him there- may his spirit be filled with joy at the prospect of fighting ahead. If he holds on to his dignity and his honor, even if he loses the fight, he will never be defeated because his soul will remain intact."

"What is true to love is also true in war."
"Losing a battle or losing everything we thought we possessed will bring us moments of sadness. But when those moments pass, we will discover the hidden strength that exists in each of us, a strength that will surely surprise us and increase our self-respect.'

". . . previous defeat means that his time they must win, because they don't want to suffer the same pain again."

". . . if victory is not theirs this time, it will be the next time. And if not the next time, then the time after that. The important thing is to get back on your feet."

"Only he who gives up is defeated. Everyone else is victorious.'

"Wait patiently for the right moment to act.

Do not let the next opportunity slip by you.

Take pride in your scars.

Scars are medal branded on the flesh, and your eyes enemies will be frightened by them because they are proof of your experience of battle."

"Scars speak more loudly than the sword that caused them."

"Defeat are those who never fail."

"Defeat means that we lose a particular battle or war. Failure does not allow us to go on fighting."

"Defeat ends when we launch into another battle. Failure has no end; it is a lifetime choice."

"Defeat is for the valiant. Only they will know the honor of losing the joy of winning."

"Only the defeated know Love. Because it is in the realm of Love that we fight our first battles - and generally lose.'

". . . don't get used to defeat." (Photo from Web)

"I am here to tell you that there are people who hav enever been defeated. They are the ones who never fought."

"Woe to those who were never beaten! They will never be winners in this life.'

"Without solitude, love will not stay long by your side."

"Because love needs to rest, so that it can journey through the heavens and reveal itself in other forms."

"Solitude is not the absence of Love, but its the complement."

"Therefore, blessed are those who do not fear solitude."

"If you are not alone, you cannot know yourself."

"The act of discovering who we are will force us to accept that we can go further than we think. And thst frightens us."

"In solitude, they will learn that saying no does not always show a lack of generosity, and that saying yes is not always a virtue."

". . . in cases of unrequited love there is always the hope that one day it will be requited."

"Nothing in this world is useless in the eyes of God. Not a leaf from a tree falls, not a hair from your head, not even an insect dies because it was no use. Everything has ahas a reason to exist."

"Don't try to be useful. Try to be yourself; that is enough, and that makes all the difference."

". . . your soul will teach you the usefulness of each step you take."

"Sometimes taking part in a battle will be the thing that will help to change the course of history. But sometimes you can do that by simply smiling, for no reason, at someon you happen to pass by on the street."

"Even if ou were to study your own life in detail and relive each moment that you suffered, sweated, and smiled beneath the sun, you would still never knowexactly when you had been useful to someone else."

"A life is never useless. Each soul that came down to Earth is here for a reason."

"Live the life you always wanted to live. Avoid criticizing others and concentrate on fulfilling your dreams.'

". . .small things are responsible for great changes."

"We are afraid to change because we think that, after so much effort and sacrifice, we know our present world."

"It's nice to dream that we will have plenty of time in the future to do our traveling, and that, one day, we will travel."

"Dreaming carries no risks. The dangerous thing is trying to transform your dreams into reality."

"To those who think that mountains don't change are wrong; they are born out of earthquakes, are eroded by wind and rain, and each day are slighty different even though we do not notice."

"Difficulty is the name of an ancient tool that was created purely to help us define who we are."

". . . nature longs for beauty and is satisfied only when beauty can be exalted,"

"Outer beauty is inner beauty mae visible, and it manifests itself in the light that flows from our eyes."

"Beauty is present in all creation, but the dangerous fact is that, because we human beings are often cut off from the Divine Energy, we allow ourselves to be influenced by what other people think. We deny our own beauty because others can't or won't recognize it. Instead of accepting who we are, we try to imitate what we see around us. We try to be what other people think of "pretty" and, little by little, our soul fades, our will weakens, and all the potential we had to make the world a more beautiful place withers away.

"We forget that the world is what we imagine it to be."

"We stop being the moonlight and become, insteadm the pool of water reflecting it."

"If we resist the temptation to allow other people to define who we are, then we will gradually be able to let the sun inside our own soul shine forth."

"Beauty exists not in sameness but in difference."

"It is the imperfect that astonishes and attracts us."

"A sunset is always more beautiful when it is covered with irregularly shaped clouds, because only then can it reflect the many colors out of which dreams and poetry are made."

"Like the sun, life spreads its light in all directions.'

". . . ever since your goal found out that you were traveling toward it, it has been running to meet you."

"In order to hear Love's words, you must allow Love to approach."

"True Love, however, is the love that sedices and will never allow itself to be seduced." 

"Love is an act of faith, not an exchange."

A rose dreams of enjoying the company of bees, but none appears. The sun asks:

"Aren't you tired of waiting?"

"Yes" answers the rose, "but if I close my petals, I will wither and die."

"Our great goal in life is to love. The rest is silence."

". . . with every farewell comes a hidden place."

"It is better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all."

"We sing more loudly when the person we love is far away and whisper poems when he is near, even if he doesn't listen and pays no attention to either songs or whispers."

"The pain of yesterday is the strength of today." (Photo from Web)

"Someday, everything will make a perfect sense." (Photo from Web)

"Our heart is open to love and we surrender to it without fear, because we have nothing more to lose."

"Love is a disease." (Photo from Web)

"Love is only a word, until we decide to let it possess us with all its force."

"Love is only a word, until someone arrives to give it meaning." (Photo from Web)

"No one can go back, but everyone can go forward."

(Photo from Web)

"Love rules, but no one knows where it has its throne; in order to know that secret place, you must first submit to Love."

"In sex, relaxation and tension go hand in hand, as do pain and pleasure and shyness and the courage to go beyond one's limit."

"When we are too generous in the sexual act and our main preoccupation is with our partner's pleasure, our own pleasure can be diminished or even destroyed."

"Two rivers meet to become a more beautiful, more powerful river.'

"Everything is permitted, if everything is accepted."

"Sometimes love grows tired of speaking softly. Therefore, let it reveal itself in all its splendor, burning like the sun and destroying the whole forests in its wind."

"See sex as a gift, a ritual transformation. And as in any ritual , ecstasy will be present to glorify the end but it is not its sole objective. What matters is that we have traveled a road with our partner that led us into unknown territory, where we encountered gold and incense and myrrh.

"Fearlessly open the box secret box of  your fantasies. One person's couurage will help the other person to be equally brave."

". . .time will cease to exist because in the land of pleasure, everything is infinite."

"We were born alone, and we will due alone But while we are on this planet, we must accept and glorify our act of faith through other people."

"Stay close to those who are interested in opening only one important dorr: The door to your heart. They will never invade your soul without your consent or shoot a deadly arrow through that open door."

"Stay close to those who sing, tell stories, and enjoy life, and those eyes sparkles with happiness. Beacause happiness is contagious  and will always manage to find a solution, whereas logic can find only an explanation for the mistake made."

"No matter how you are feeeling, get up every morning and prepare to let your light shine forth."

"Elegance is not an outer quality, but a part of the soul that is visible to others."

"Elegance lies not in the clothes we wear, but in the way we wear them."

"the simplest things in life are the most extra-ordinary. Let them reveal themselves."

"The nearer the heart comes to simplicity, the more capable it is of loving freely and without fear. The more fearlessly it loves, the more capable it is of revealing elegance in its every gesture."

"Fate is never unfair to everyone. We are free to love or hate what we do."

"When we love, we find the same joy in our dailty activity as do those who one day set off in search of their dreams."

"Success does not come from having one's work recognized by others. It is the fruit of a seed that you lovingly planted." 

"Success comes to those who do not waste time comparing what they are doing with what others are doing."

"People who seek only success rearely find it, because success is not an end, but a consequence."

"What is success?" (Photo from Web)

"Miracles tear away the veils and change everything, but do not let us see what lies behind the veils."

"Anxiety is part of love, and should not be blamed because of that."

"Anxiety was born in the very same moment as mankind. And since we will never be able to master it, we will have to learn to live with it - just as we have learned to live with storms."

"Although anxiety is part of life, never let it control you."

"Man does not live by bread alone, but by every word that proceeds out of the mouth of God."

"Excessive caution destroys the soul and the heart, because living is an act of courage, and an act of courage is always an act of love."

". . .the great wisdom of life is that we can be masters of the things that try to enslave us."

"We must love. I am not speaking only of love for another person. Loving means being open to miracles, to victories, to everything that happens each day that was given us to walk upon the face of the Earth. Our soul is governed by foru forces: love, death, power and time."

". . .  you might have lost some major battle, but you survived and you're still here."

"Never miss an opportunity to show you love, especially to those close to you."

"Love does not need to be understood. It needs only to be shown."

". . . the future holds for you depends entirely on your capacity for love." 

"The greatest gift God gave us is the power to make decisions."

". . . we will hurt those we love if we leave everything behind in the name of our dreams."

"But those who truly want the best for us want us to be happy, even if, they try to stop us from going ahead by means of threats, promises, and tears." 

". . . when your dream is almost within your grasp, you will be assailed by terrible gift."

". . . if a man understands that he is worthy of what he has struggled so long for, he will realize that he did not get there alone and must respect the Hand that led him."

". . . what was broken will never be the same again."

"We are all prisoners of the sand of time, and we have no control over them."

"Loyalty has its roots in respect, and respect is the fruit of love."

"When you forgive, the person who insulted you feels humbled in his error and becomes loyal."

"The most destructive of weapon is not the siege of cannon, which can wound a body and demolish a wall. The most terrible of all weapons is the word, which can ruin a life without leaving a trace of blood, and whose words never heal."

"Let us be masters of our tonguesand  not slaves of our words. Even if words are used against us let us not enter the battle that cannot be won."

"Loyalty is a pearl among grains of sand, and only those who really understand its meaning can see it."

"The truly wise do not grieve over the living or the dead."

"Man is not defined by earthly battles, because just as the wind changes direction, so do luck an victory.Today's losers will be tomorrow's winner, but in orde for that to happen, combat must be embraced with honor."

"We will have to face many adversaries in our lives, but the most difficult to defeat will be the ones we fear."

"We will always meet rivals in everything we do, but the most dangerous are those we believe to be our friends."

"Good friends are like a fine wine."

"We all suffer when our dignity is attacked or witnessed, but the greatest pain will be caused by those we thought were examples to be followed."

"If someone confronts you over idea or ideals, step up and accept the fight, because conflict is present in every moment of our lives and sometimes it needs to show itself in the broad light of day."

"Fight only with a worthy opponent, and not with someone who uses trickery to prolong a war that is already over, as does sometimes happen."

"The enemy is not the person standing before you, sword in hand. It is the person standing next to you with a dagger concealed behind his back."

"Therefore, your enemies are not the adversaries who were out there to test your courage. They are the cowards who were put there to test your weakness."

Thanks for visiting! ^_*

- Cee Brensan

The Longest Ride by Nicholas Sparks

Bookish Mardi: A Book Review of "The Longest Ride" by Nicholas Sparks 

"Trust people, until they give you a reason not to." 

- Nicholas Sparks

It's undoubtedly undeniable that Nicholas Sparks is one among my personal favorite authors. He has the most space in my shelf since I have been collecting his books as well. So when he updated his status via FB which stated that his latest novel had finally been released, euphoric I've become. It was exactly the 17th day of September 2013 when the eagerness and giddiness collided within me. It was the same day I felt I badly needed to travel from the previous school I was working going to any neighboring city which had the bookstore selling the book so I would be able to fall in line for it. However, reality sank in when a student came inside our faculty room reminding me of my next literature class. I then realized I actually didn't have the time to read it yet and considering the fact that the book on that day wasn't available yet,everything became vague. Mind setting was all I did so as for me to be able to set aside that intense flame burning within me to touch and read the book.

I kept my the feeling until months had passed, the next time I realized, it's already been December. The month of such a jocund season, Christmas. Since it's also my birth month, one of my favorite students, Janica a sophormore, asked me through her classmate as to what I would like to recieve or what book would I like to received. I made mention of it but not expecting her buying it for me. ^_^ 

Fast forward to the day I finally got the book, I was sent to cloud nine. Though I wasn't able to actually receive it on the month of December but instead of May, nine months after it was released,  my gratefulness was incomparable. Millions of thank to Janica, indeed! :)))

Book Review

The author introduces to us the story by using the point of view or Ira, a ninety one year old man who met a car accident. A man who had been holding and losing his consciousness and was about to give up living but with the help of his dead wife's presence it enabled him to survive. His wife helped him to not lost his grip of his life by making him reminisce his World War days and how they met. Therefore, flashbacking's been so evident in the story.

Photo from web 

The author does not only make use of one character's point of view, instead, four. Sparks makes use of the four main characters' insights. As you go through the story, each chapter is named after a character which signals you that, that particular chapter is that character's point of view. I find it unique, since it's the very first book I've read which has a style like such. However, if you are not following the story too well and if you are not familiar with how the author writes, you'll actually be confused, which I believe will just be diminished as you are to slowly unfold the story.

Sparks, as always, makes me love him even more by his works. Other than him being so poetic and literary prolific, his ability in writing billet-doux sensationally is one among the many characteristics  I just don't like but madly in love with about him. The love-letter writing is what I also look forward to from his books. And, as always, it was present in the novel,too. So, what more do you expect me to think? :)))

For those who love so much twists in a novel, spoiler alert!, this has none. However, it's still a good one for me since there was not much villains and the like present in the story. Hence, you'll find it great.

Nicholas Sparks,together with Ira, Ruth, Luke and Sophia taught me that we may never be able to know every single person around us, yet we are all together woven by just one Weaver. Whatever one's decision may be, will surely affect somebody else's. They have also made me realized that the most difficult situations we may be in at the present will harness the real us, making us the most brilliant diamond ever polished by trials which can make us become the better version of us. The better we become, the more we can continue making  the longest ride - our life - become ultimately extraordinary.  With this, I SALUTE YOU MR. SPARKS! *_^

Book Summary 

Ira Levinson is in trouble. At ninety-one years ols and alone in the world, he finds himself in tstranded on an isolated embankment after a car crash. Suffering multiple injuries, he struggles to retain consiousness until a blurry image materializes and comes into focus deside him: his beloved wife Ruth, who passed away nine years ago. Urging him to hang on, she forces him to remain alert by reminiscing about their life together. Ira knows that Ruth can't possibly be in the car with him, but he clings to her words and his memories.

A few miles away, at a local bull-riding event, a Wake Forest University senior's life is about to change. Recovering from a recent break up, Sophian Danko meets a young cowboy named Luke. Through Luke, Sophia is introduced to a world in which the stakes are high: Reward and ruin - and even life and death - loom large in everyday life.  After she and luke fall in love, Sophia finds herself imagining a future far removed from her plans - if the secret Luke's keeping doesn't destroy it first. 

Ira and Ruth. Sophia and Luke. Two couples who have little in common and who are separated by years and experience. Yet their lives will converge with unexpected poignancy, reminding us all that even the most difficult decisions can yield extraordinary journeys." 

Remarkable Lines from the Book 

"I sometimes think to myself that I'm the last of my kind." -  Ira

". . . most people, when given the  choice, would do what was right, even it was hard,  and he believed that good almost always triumphed over evil." - Ira's father

"Trust people until they give you a reason not to. And then never turn back." - Ira's father

". . . despite the wonders of modern technology and forecasting, weather predictions are still fallible." - Ira

"I know I'm not going to be able to change the world, but I think it's important to try to make a difference." - Mary Kate

"The world needs a little mystery." - Sophia

"I guess people tend to put their first  loves on pedestal, and in the beginning, I was no difference." - Sophia

"No father thinks any man is good enough for his daughter." - Ruth 

"Yet experience has taught me that fate is sometimes cruel and that even a boatload of hope is sometimes not enough."

". . .when it comes to competing, it's more about learning how to choose a good pig when it's little." - Luke

"It's easy to joke when you don't care anymore. I'm not saying it didn't hurt me, because it did." - Sophia

"It was not the first kiss we'd ever shared, but in many ways, it had become my favorite if only because it happened when I needed it most, marking the beginning of one of the two most wonderful, and life-altering periods of my life." - Ira

"What I do know is that when I was sitting with you that night, I felt like God was telling me that I was doing the right thing." - Ruth

"Family is always there, no matter what, even when it's not right next door. Which means that you'll find a way to keep the connection alive. Especially since you realize how important it is." - Luke's mother

"She was always stronger and smarter and better at everything, and I think again that of the two of us, I made the better choice so long ago. I still don't know why she chose me. While she was exceptional, I was average, a man whose major accomplishment in life was to love her without reservation, and that will never change." - Luke 

"It's strange, I think, the way our lives turn out. Moments of circumstance, when later combined with conscious decisions and actions and boatload of hope, can eventually forge a future that seems predestined."

"You can still live without me." - Ruth

"What every last person failed to see was that it was not about money; it was about the memories they held." - Ira

"My marriage brought great happiness into my life." - Ira

"People plan, God laughs." 

"A truth emerges in any long marriages, and that truth is this: Our spouses sometimes know us better that we ever know ourselves." - Ira

"I'm not making a mistake. And I'm not going to get hurt." - Sophia

"I know how much you care about him. But your lives aren't just on different tracks, they're on different continents. And that meand you are going to have to watch your heart from here on, because if you don't, it's going to end up breaking into all sorts of pieces." - Marcia

"Do not worry about tomorrow until you have to." 

"I wish I had the talent to paint the way I feel about you, for my words always feel inadequate. I imagine using red for your passion and pale blue for your kindness; forest green to reflect the depth of your empathy and bright yellow for your unflagging optimism. And still I wonder, can even an artist's palette capture the full range of what you mean to me.'' - Ira

"As your husband, I can listen and hold you; and kiss your tears away." - Ira

"I loved a man who loved me in return, and this was the greatest gift I could ever have hoped to receive." - Ruth

"I know you miss me terribly. I miss you, too. But we still have each other, for I am - and always have been - part of you. You carry me in your heart, just as I carried you in mine, and nothing can ever change that. I love you, my darling, and you loved me. Hold on to that feeling. Hold on to us. And little by little, you will find a way to heal." - Ira

"With you, my life felt indeed like a fantastic adventure- despit e our ordinary circumstance, your love imbued everything we did with secret riches. How I was lucky enough to share a life with you, I still cannot understand."- Ira 

"For every day that passes is one day closer to the moment I will see you again. You are my wife, but more that that, you have always been my one true love." - Ira 

"After all, if there is heaven, we will find each other again, for there is no heaven without you." - Ira 

" . . . our reality is shaped by our perceptions. That something is good or bad only because we - you and I - believe it to be so, based on our own experiences." - Sophia 

"In other words, our opinions and our thoughts and feelings - anything we experience - need not define us forever." - Sophia