Random Thoughts : "Everything Happens for a Reason" ( A note I once posted in FB)

Some people come into your life and you know right away that they were meant to be there to serve some purposes, teach you a lesson or to help you figure out who you are and who you want to become. You never know who these people may be. They could be a neighbor, a professor, a friend , or a lover but when you lock eyes with them you know that at that very moment they will affect your life in some profound ways.

Sometimes the things happen to you may seem terrible, horrible, painful and unfair at first but in reflection you will find out that overcoming those obstacles, you would have never realized your potentials, strength, willpower or heart. Illness, injury, love, lost moments of true greatness and sheer stupidity all occur to test the limit of your soul. without these small tests, life would be like a smoothly paved straight flat road to nowhere. It would be safe and comfortable but dull and utterly pointless.

The people you meet who affect your life and the success and downfalls you experience help to create you as to who you are and who you become. Even the bad experiences help us grow. In fact, they are sometimes the most important ones.

If someone hates you, betrays you, or breaks your heart, forgive them for they have helped you learn about TRUST and the importance of being CAUTIOUS to whom you open you heart to. If someone loves you, love them back unconditionally not only because they love you, but because they are teaching you to love. Make every day count. Appreciate every moment and take from it everything that you possibly can, for you may never be able to experience it again.

Talk to people you never talked before and listen. Let yourself fall in love, break free and set your sight high. Hold your head up because you have every right to. Tell yourself that you are a great individual and believe in yourself; for if you don't believe in yourself, no one else will believe in you, either.

You can make anything you wish in your life. Create your own life and live it with absolutely no regrets. Have a fighting spirit and never hesitate to get back in a struggle.

Most importantly, if you love someone tell them for you never know what tomorrow may have in store. And learn a lesson each day of life you live.

Someday, all will just make a perfect sense. So for now, laugh at the confusions, smile through the tears and keep reminding yourself that whatever may come at hand,  "EVERYTHING HAPPENS FOR A REASON." :)