“It happens to everyone as they grow up. You find out who you are and
what you want, and then you realize that people you've known forever
don't see things the way you do. So you keep the wonderful memories, but
find yourself moving on.”
―
Nicholas Sparks
“Even though you may want to move forward in your life, you may have one
foot on the brakes. In order to be free, we must learn how to let go.
Release the hurt. Release the fear. Refuse to entertain your old
pain. The energy it takes to hang onto the past is holding you back
from a new life. What is it you would let go of today?”―
Mary Manin Morrissey
“It is important that we forgive ourselves for making mistakes. We need to learn from our errors and move on.”
―
Steve Maraboli,
Life, the Truth, and Being Free
“A very wise man once told me that you can't look back-you just have to
put the past behind you, and find something better in your future.”
―
Jodi Picoult,
Salem Falls
“Grudges are for those who insist that they are owed something;
forgiveness, however, is for those who are substantial enough to move
on.”
―
Criss Jami,
Salomé: In Every Inch In Every Mile
There is no reason to stay disillusioned and discouraged after a
failed relationship, regardless of whether it was a long-term or
short-term relationship. If you feel discouraged and disillusioned,
don't! The world is a big place and there is someone for you on this
planet who will come into your life and you both will have the type of
loving relationship you really want.
There are actions you can take to kick start this process and find happiness again and soon enough.
Set a Mourning Period
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Ancient cultures practiced this in order to pour out their grief and
show respect. It is perfectly normal to mourn the relationship so you
should set a time frame for this. The mourning period should not be for
an extensive period of time, just short enough for you to pour your
grief and emotions into it and snap out of it. Make it reasonably short
in a way that works for you.
Remove Anchors to the Past
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Anchors are devices that keep you stuck in place and prevent progress.
There are of two forms - emotional anchors and physical anchors.
Emotional anchors are the feelings - love, hate, bitterness, anger, etc.
Physical anchors are the elements that carry energy which could keep
you stuck - photographs, mementos, gifts, etc relating to the past
relationship(s). These emotional and physical anchors carry an energy
that may be blocking you from finding love or having stable
relationships. Nature abhors a vacuum so you need to create a vacuum by
removing these anchors.
Take a Moment to Understand Yourself
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I mean
really get to know yourself. What are your motivations, what are your
strengths, weaknesses, your personality, what shaped it, which kind of
people suit you best, what kind of lifestyle is in alignment with your
true self. This is the sort of understanding you should get about
yourself. This understanding will help you immensely.
Reinvent Yourself for You
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Do those things you have been wanting to do but never limit the time.
Also do things that make you happy. Adopt an exercise routine that
creates balance. Change your diet to one that aligns with your system.
Learn a foreign language. Travel. Just do something new.
Create an Energy Shift
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You know that everything has
an energy. Sometimes the things in our physical environment block us
from getting what we really want. For instance looking at opposing
images or pictures of the things you want in your life. You want
happiness, then look at happiness and focus on it. You want a happy life
with a great loving relationship, then stop listening to sappy love
songs about break ups and heartbreak. Switch to things that have the
energy you want in your life.
Become a Magnet for Love
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There are a number of processes to follow to become a magnet for love.
For starters come to terms with who you are and truly love yourself.
Lavish yourself with love. Something else you can do is to decide on the
kind of love life you want and with what kind of person and be clear
about it, and use the law of attraction to attract and manifest the
person in your life. These actions taken together will help you
get over the failed relationship quickly and move into a zone of
receiving the love you truly desire.
. . . so, go on and enjoy what the world will have to offer you instead of burying yourself in your past. The door that closed its way for you is never a dead-end. It'll surely open another door for you to get going. And who knows, this new one might have you at its and your best. Let's not forget that the past has long been OVER and DONE so why bother yourself about it? LIVE. LAUGH . . . . . . and LOVE ^^
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